Actress and adult entertainment consultant, Seyi Hunter, has spoken about Nigeria’s complex relationship with sexuality, arguing that many Nigerians consume sexual content in private despite publicly acting otherwise.
Speaking
in an interview with the Punch, Hunter
said, “I won’t call it hypocrisy; I’ll say Nigerians are private people. It’s
like most of us (not me) are living double lives. People often feel the need to
present themselves in ways that align with societal or religious expectations,
even when their private interests are different.
“There’s
a reason we are always topping charts on porn sites, but nobody admits they
watch them. Before I lost my first Sinful Friday channel on Xvideos, it had
over a billion views. Who was watching? People pretend a lot, but Gen Z are
breaking that stereotype,” she said.
Speaking
on whether more open conversations about intimacy could help couples build
stronger relationships, Hunter said communication is key to sexual
compatibility.
“If
you are sexually compatible with your partner, all you need is communication to
get the ball rolling. Always let your partner know what you want, and always
explore. Fifty per cent of sex and intimacy is communication. Even if there’s a
deeper issue, you’ll never know without communication,” she said.
Reflecting
on her personal experiences, Hunter added that attraction alone does not always
guarantee compatibility in a relationship.
“I
dated someone I liked, but every time he touched me, it felt like he was using
pins on my skin,” she added.
Culled from the Punch
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